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Therapist's Guide to RSD · Volume II — Regulation and the Session Arc
When Clients Seek Reassurance Repeatedly
When Clients Seek Reassurance Repeatedly She asked the question seven times today, and the question was not really a question.
Therapist's Guide to RSD · Volume II — Regulation and the Session Arc
When Clients Seek Reassurance Repeatedly
Over time, you may collaboratively develop practices the client can use before reaching out.
Therapist's Guide to RSD · Volume I — Foundations and Assessment
Chapter 11: Working with Protective Responses
What it costs: exhaustion, the other person feeling overwhelmed or lectured, the client's experience being dominated by performance rather than presence.
Therapist's Guide to RSD · Volume II — Regulation and the Session Arc
A Repeatable Session Arc for RSD Treatment
The next chapter takes up a specific recurring challenge: what to do when clients repeatedly seek reassurance without developing internal capacity.
The House
Regulation has to happen before the insight will land
Read it free What is in it The Body in Rejection Pain open this in the house search Regulation Tools That Actually Help open this in the house search Building the Window of Tolerance open this in the house search Client Practice Between Sessions open this in the house search The Stories RSD Tells open this in the house search Attachment Patterns and Reassurance Loops open this in the house search Identity, Worth, and Self-Trust open this in the house search Developmental and Contextual Fit open this in the house search A Repeatable Session Arc for RSD Treatment open this in the house
Therapist's Guide to RSD · Volume I — Foundations and Assessment
Chapter 11: Working with Protective Responses
Clients sometimes express this directly later in treatment: "You're the first person who didn't try to talk me out of it.