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5 passages from 4 volumes
The Room Reads You First
10. Sequence, Anchor, and the Clock
You must be willing to walk away if the concession pattern reveals that the counterpart is gaming the process, and you must have the discipline to withhold concessions when the pattern is uninformative.
The Room Reads You First
10. Sequence, Anchor, and the Clock
By bundling, you force the counterpart to reveal their preference structure across the variables, allowing you to trade on your own differential valuation.
The Luminous Guide to Neurolinguistic Programming
10. Strategies: The Order the Operations Have to Come In
Trying to close them faster reads to them as pressure, and pressure resets the clock. Automatic.
Therapist's Guide to RSD · Volume I — Foundations and Assessment
Chapter 9: Slowing the Moment Down
Let me sit with that for a second." Even a few seconds of pause can interrupt the forward momentum of an escalating sequence.
The House
They decided about you before you finished the first slide
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