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Therapist's Guide to RSD · Volume II — Regulation and the Session Arc Attachment Patterns and Reassurance Loops Attachment Patterns and Reassurance Loops The reaching is real. The needing is real. The fear that the bridge will collapse if you stop checking the bridge is also real — and it is the thing you work with, not the bridge itself. Therapist's Guide to RSD · Volume II — Regulation and the Session Arc Attachment Patterns and Reassurance Loops Reassurance, given repeatedly, paradoxically strengthens the underlying pattern. The client learns that reassurance is what settles the nervous system, which means uncertainty remains unbearable, which means the next trigger produces the same urgency. Therapist's Guide to RSD · Volume II — Regulation and the Session Arc When Clients Seek Reassurance Repeatedly Can we talk about how to balance these?" This conversation is best held when the client is regulated, when the alliance is solid, and when there's a clinical rationale you can explain. The House Regulation has to happen before the insight will land Read it free What is in it The Body in Rejection Pain open this in the house search Regulation Tools That Actually Help open this in the house search Building the Window of Tolerance open this in the house search Client Practice Between Sessions open this in the house search The Stories RSD Tells open this in the house search Attachment Patterns and Reassurance Loops open this in the house search Identity, Worth, and Self-Trust open this in the house search Developmental and Contextual Fit open this in the house search A Repeatable Session Arc for RSD Treatment Therapist's Guide to RSD · Volume II — Regulation and the Session Arc Building the Window of Tolerance A client who has done good work with their stories can hear the I'm unwanted story arrive and recognize it as the story arriving, without fully believing it.