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Something shifts in the room, and the reaction is far bigger than anything that happened
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Therapist's Guide to RSD · Volume I — Foundations and Assessment
Chapter 2: What RSD Looks Like in the Room
Recognition as Compassion Accurate recognition is not cold observation. It is a compassionate stance toward the reality of what the client is living through.
The House
Something shifts in the room, and the reaction is far bigger than anything that happened
So the sequence earns its keep: recognize, regulate, reflect, reframe, repair. Recognition first, because nothing can be received until the client feels seen.